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FR's avatar

Great points. Empathizing with others’ is an underrated but needed skill and can really provide the needed encouragement we all need, especially in hard times.

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Lisa's avatar

Striving for work/life balance is always at the front of my mind - right along with my daily schedule. The joke is, 'I don't clock-out.' But seriously, I don't clock-out; as in, I don't clock-out of how I am naturally: an empathetic person. This gift of intuition is often looked upon as soft or weak. And I have struggled with it in the work place too - I don't turn off who I am just because I clock-in for someone doing the job they need me to do. Often, my keen observation coupled with my (sometimes over) boldness to comment when I notice someone is down (especially to someone who is in a position of authority in a work place) is treated more like unwanted attention. Having that experience more than once keeps me reserved in relationship with others and limited my opportunity to come alongside someone to help pick them up when they are feeling blue.

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